The Spirits' Book
Book Two - The Spirit World
Chapter VI - Spirit Life
Commemoration of the Dead – Funerals
323. Does a spirit derive more pleasure from someone visiting its grave than a prayer offered in its name by loved ones in their own home?
“Visiting a grave site is a symbolic gesture and a way of showing a spirit that it was not forgotten. As I have told you, the prayer blesses the gesture of remembrance. Where the prayer is offered is of little significance, so long as it comes from the heart.”